Who else, but here I am with age more and more convinced that people are, in fact, do not change.   Yes, and the people rightly say: "leopard change his spots."
Well it is very difficult, almost impossible to rehabilitate an adult with a stable personality ... Every time convinced of this.
Again the situation: I had a classmate, who allowed himself too much to others.
For example, a couple of times called me at school, roughly, lectured.
And this despite the fact that I was the best student in the class, just not as "advanced" and you like this, as she is.
And from these considerations, she thought she was in the right me something to point out as well as being much more stupid.
I just tried to ignore it, especially since the end of high school, she somehow calmed down. By the way, in the classroom it especially no one liked, that is not surprising.
Our separate ways, I continued to chat with the girls in the class, make friends with anyone initially.
So about a year ago, the "star" finds me in the net and stuffed friend.
I added it, do not mind, and no harm to it did not hold.
She has been actively asking that I as a yes, offer to meet, I politely refused, referring to employment.
And that it should be from me suddenly, I thought.
At the last meeting of graduates still see and I was surprised how things have changed her appearance and behavior.
Of the arrogant party girl she turned into a kind of aunt, with a dozen extra pounds, pants sit in some office.
"Well, well, it is necessary so a run" - I thought. However, none of my business, even if she lives as she pleases.
We continued from time to time to chat on the Internet, it is constantly commenting on any of my posts.
I kept thinking, "Is she really changed? Just became a darling, can not believe ..." And that's the last time she still fell, dropping the role of "cute" and a friend returned to his edify tone.
I'm a good expert in your field of vision and I just better than her, but despite this, my friend start to ridicule, viciously criticize my arguments and texts.
In general, acquired the former appearance, familiar to me since high school.
Remove it from harm's way, I initially did not believe that she was a different person - sympathetic and respectful of others.
No wonder they say that one mistake - it was an accident, but two - have a tendency.
There are certainly people who sincerely wish to change and work on yourself, but this is unusual.   In your life there were people really transformed, radically changed for the better? Maybe I just have not seen such ...